hi there Karen,
my name is lee, im 21 and i have a 8 month old boy and live in bankstown, sydney. i really do know how you fell darling,i fell in love with a man from serbia, yugoslavia, when i was 5 months pregnet i found out he didnt have a visa, and he was locked up in villawood detention cente. he chose to go back to serbia when i was 6 mths pregnet, from that moment till my baby was 2 months old i really thought a was going to be a single mother, ]like my mother] i was soo scared i had no where to live no money, my mothers boyfriend at that stage didnt welcome me to live with them, so i built up the strenght for my unborn baby and got out of bed stopped crying all day and night and seeked help off the housing commision. they provided me with 4 weeks bond and 1 week of rent to get me on my feet. after i payed rent from my pay check i was left with 50 dollars for the next two weeks, i had nothing organised for my baby to come, i started ring the trading post, went to garage sales and second hand stores and got some help of st vincent de paul, three very lovely old people came around and talked to me, the next time they came they had beautiful near new clothes new bath set baby products nappies heaps and heaps of stuff too much to mention, they were great kept in contact with me to see if i needed more, a few weeks later the stress of it all got to me and started getting very depressed and angry, went to the doctor and she diagnosed me with post natel depresson, im now on zoloft tablets and feel 100% better,anyway i got in contact with deki my babies father, and guess what im now this very moment in belgrade serbia and have been for 4 months, and due to come home 28th of jan 04 and wait for him, we are getting married in the next couple weeks and i couldnt be happier, any way sweety love to catch up with you and hang out with our babies together, hope you are going ok, stay strong and if you need to talk im an email away, {ur2ndbaby@yahoo.com.au}, love lee, paja and deki,
lee,sydney, 71/2 mth baby