Hi there, I am replying because I know how frustrating it can get when your child has reflux. I myself, have severe reflux too. But my son, now 2 and a half, has had some really bad reflux. He has had a lot of bowel surgery and he has thrown up all sorts, (including blood) more times than I can remember. If you'd like to send me an e-mail my address is firstname.lastname@example.org. Would love to hear from you.
If you go into the Newborn 0-3mth forum you'll be able to read about all the help I've received from the wonderful people who frequent this site. There are also other areas throughout the parents exchange where others have faced the frustrations of a reflux baby too.
I wish you the best of luck,