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Ahhhh men and porn! Rss

I just don't get it. What is it with men and their damn porn?!

Emma 31/7/03, Daniel 11/1/06

haha.. yes i hear ya...

queenbee_brooke@hotmail.com

if ya wanna a a bitch... im hear for ya! lol..
i love my man, but its good to have girlfiends!
i have msn too!

brooke

Kailey, 15 months

I hear you there! I wish I knew but I just put it down to that different male chromosome. I guess men love the visual side to it too. My other half reckons he watches it when he is bored just for something to do! What the F***? LOL

Boms mummy

Hello,

I hear you loud and clear.

Men who can understand them at the best of times.

oh my I know exactly how you feel.
turned the computer on fri to check uni stuff and the computer is doing all these bad things. went and checked the history (i didnt use computer at all on thurs) and found that about a dozen porn sites had been looked at and from doing that has done god knows what to our computer.
I have told him over and over again those sites are bad and tried to tell him that i find it offensive that he feels the need to look at them. bad enough that he has porn videos and dvd that i totally disapprove of.
why the need to look at that stuff really!
same goes for strippers, will never understand the fasination with them either...
MEN

tell me about my hubby is a butcher, n he brings them hme from wrk all the time, some of them are pretty gross.
he said he went to one site n the rest just came up...at first he said no he didnt then changed his tune..i have pop up blocker n now the computer is running like poo!!if he wants to look at porn i cant stop him it just annoy me so that whatever he did has stuffed the computer up n i need it for uni at the moment....

my husband used to look at porn all the time, he used to say he just likes to watch it. we used to fight heaps about it. i used the argument" how do you think it makes me feel when its the porn that turns you on and then you come to me"

he says he doesnt watch it anymore, im on the computer pretty regular so i could check if he does but i guess i do have to trust him. plus DH works with computers so he prob knows how to hide it anyway.

its everywhere anyway, sometimes you look up the most simple thing and up pops porn sites!

Nothing to see here folks!!

if he gonna look at it there not much i can do about it, we been together long enough for him to know how i feel it just annoyed me that its affected the computer which he knows i need for uni.
and its funny i havent ever felt the need to check but after it started playing up n i knew i hadnt been on it i just did....
oh well things happen...thats life!

LOL i wish my fiance was interested in porn, he just usually laughs at it. i am more into it than he is! lol. i dragged him around fyshwick when we visited canberra a few years ago so i could have a look around.

Heidi 3 years & Annika 4 days

LOL... can't help but laugh

Men will never change, even if they tell you they won't look at porn i guarantee they're picturing it in their head!!

My other half looks at it occasionally, and i really don't mind as long as its kept to a minimum. I know its mostly curiosity , even for me, i've looked at it before to see what all the 'hype' was about...

I also check the history and any downloads occasionally just to check up.. lol
I'm sure he thinks i don't know and i don't question him about it.. cos i think the more your against it and argue about it will just result in him trying to hide it from you even more...

I think as long as it's kept to a minimum, it's harmless.






[Edited on 28/08/2007]

Lara''''''''s proud mummy (",)

my hubby no longer looks at it on the computer...not long after my dd was born i was fully self conscious as i got stretch marks and had the saggy tummy look..we were fighting a fair bit so obviously sex was completely out of the question...i was working on the computer and stumbled across his massive stash!

I rang him and asked him about it and he just got on the defensive! i was already down about my body and i think this just tipped me over the edge! i was no longer bf my dd so i just sat on the couch and got so drunk that i dont even really remember much of that night...he came home and was horrified to see me like that and has since never looked at it on the net again..

I used to be heaps understanding of it..like before we had kids but now i take it personally as though im not good enough for him anymore and he needs someone better to get him going...
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