I'm a much larger girl .. I started my first pregnancy at 100kg and ended it just under 150kg .. I couldn't exercise because of SPD, I was depressed cause my partner left me for another woman, I had pre eclampsia, so lots of excess fluid and I was only 16, so didn't really know how to look after myself.
They said nothing about my weight or weight gain during my first pregnancy ..
I'm currently 16 weeks pregnant with my second baby and I've been put in the high risk catergory because of my problems with my last pregnancy that they are now thinking happened because of my weight ..
I was 117kg pre pregnancy and I'm now 115kg ..
I was told that my aim should be to put on no weight during this pregnancy, I was upset, angry and am now feeling real pressure about it .. I'm exercising and eatting well, so if I do gain weight I know in my head i've done all the right things.