im having trouble with my DF at the moment about what last name we are to give our child, and we dont have long to argue, and i need opinions.
you see when i had my firs daughter i was so certain i was going to be with her father 4eva i gaveher his last name and it has caused nothing but depression ever since. ie she didnt feel like mine at first. i know it sounds really really weird but i just wish all the time i had of at least hyphonated it.
now with the arrival of my second approaching, and i plan to marry as we ar actually engaged, i still dont want to make the same mistake as we have had a really rocky relationship, and dont want to fall backinto the depression i felt if it al goes belly up again, but my DF is cut that i want to hyphonate instead of just his name
i hope that makes sense and i would really love it if anyone else in this predicament could help me out
manda smile xx
ps i know itsjust a name but it means a great deal to me especially when i look at my medicare card etc.
DD may 03, DS oct 06