Hi, My son has reflux and he to used to cry all the time. He used to constantly be feeding cause he would projectile vomit all his feeds and so he was then hungry again. We tried breastmilk frist (of course), then S26 Gold then S26 AR. That made an improvement but he was then still crying lots. He had really bad wind and became constpatied and was still having spills from the S26 AR. Then I tried Karicare AR, he had a sudden improvement - it didn't happen over night but almost!. Now I have a very differnt child, of course he still crys at times like any baby. But his wind has decreased, no more constipation, no more bug spills, and best of all his temperment has improved. So I would suggest Karicare AR and give that a go, I know you said she doesn't like the bottles but i believe that this formular will help and she will start improving. I use the Pur teats - for AR it must be fast flowing teats as so they can get the milk cause it's thicker formula they need that faster flowing teat. Cause without that they cant get the milk, and they are sucking and getting no where and it frustates them.
I hope this helped in some way and you and your little girl have a happier nights sleep and happier playtime!
Best of luck.
Mother of an 8 week old baby boy - with reflux