HI,
I am a mother of two gorgeous boys ages 5 and 3. I have been with my husband for 8years and married for just over 12 months. I work part-time also.
My husband and I have had a lot of ups and downs, but in the last couple of years and its getting worse. The biggest issue with have with our relationship is sex, I have little or no sex drive (I have seen doctors about this and tried many things to get it back) my partner gets very frustrated and cranky with me at least every 2nd night we fight about it. He knows how I feel about it and that my drive is low yet he thinks I should still be able to just do it- even when a do it and I don't feel like it he knows this and will complain after it that it was boring as im not into it and its not enough for him :S
If I don't "give" him any he wont speak to me-only has a comment like "I don't know whats wrong with you" . "you are making me feel lonely". I completely understand a relationship requires sex, I really do - I try and be affectionate to make him stop feeling "lonely" like kissing him telling him I love him cuddling him etc but he just gets more frustrated with me as its not enough? ! ?
It literally does my head in and I feel as though I cannot take it anymore
Am I overreacting ? I really feel as though he will never be happy
I am a mother of two gorgeous boys ages 5 and 3. I have been with my husband for 8years and married for just over 12 months. I work part-time also.
My husband and I have had a lot of ups and downs, but in the last couple of years and its getting worse. The biggest issue with have with our relationship is sex, I have little or no sex drive (I have seen doctors about this and tried many things to get it back) my partner gets very frustrated and cranky with me at least every 2nd night we fight about it. He knows how I feel about it and that my drive is low yet he thinks I should still be able to just do it- even when a do it and I don't feel like it he knows this and will complain after it that it was boring as im not into it and its not enough for him :S
If I don't "give" him any he wont speak to me-only has a comment like "I don't know whats wrong with you" . "you are making me feel lonely". I completely understand a relationship requires sex, I really do - I try and be affectionate to make him stop feeling "lonely" like kissing him telling him I love him cuddling him etc but he just gets more frustrated with me as its not enough? ! ?
It literally does my head in and I feel as though I cannot take it anymore
Am I overreacting ? I really feel as though he will never be happy