I know exactly what you mean. My DH is a bit on the distant side with me at the moment. Will do anything for DS but not for me and I have been quite ill since my C section 5 mths ago. Yes I am on maternity leave at the moment and dont have to go to work but that doesnt mean that he should not have to help me with the tea, the dishes, the housework, anything! I dont get to sit down to rest until about 8pm at night and then I want to go to bed and he cannot understand why. I feel crap everyday due to my surgery a month ago and my mum helps me a lot so I think my DH thinks that is enough. Even on the weekends he doesnt help. He is on holidays from next week for 3weeks and to be honest I am not looking forward to it. One other thing that really annoys me is that on weekends he sleeps in until lunchtime, meanwhile I have been up since 6am and exhausted. Anyway enough whinging just needed to vent my thoughts!
I know how you feel. What do we do??
Julie, SA, mum to Thomas born 21/11/05