Depression can be a sensitive topic. It’s typically a very private condition and it can be difficult for many of us to talk about our feelings.
During pregnancy, you will experience an extensive range of emotions. These may range from bliss and excitement to stress or even fear. The changes your physical body goes through can also affect how you feel and react in different situations.
It’s important to acknowledge that there isn’t a right or wrong way to feel and behave during pregnancy. Every pregnancy and every mother is unique and ideally, you’ll feel confident in your ability to get through this massive life event the best you can.
If you are unsure about whether you or even a close friend is struggling, speak with someone you trust. Depression during pregnancy is surprisingly common and it’s important that you know you are not alone. Australian research shows that ante natal depression affects as many as one in every 10 women.
Pregnancy can be a wonderful time for many women. For others the discomfort and anxiety that often comes with pregnancy can become too much. This combination can leave many women particularly vulnerable to depression.
As well as the general physical discomforts of pregnancy, if other aspects of your life aren't going so well, you may become even more vulnerable.
It can be easy to miss the signs of depression in pregnancy. Moodiness and surges of emotion are common symptoms. But depression can become a dangerous problem for some pregnant women if it’s left untreated.
The signs of depression also vary from person to person, but there are some common signs to look out for. Here is a short list of some of the symptoms that you might have if you are suffering from depression:
If you are experiencing any of the above symptoms, you should talk to your maternity care provider as soon as possible. If you’re struggling to take care of yourself and feel that you may be neglecting your health, you and even your unborn baby might be at risk.
Seeing a professional about how you are feeling is not a sign of weakness. It's a sign, in fact, that your maternal instincts are strong and protective and you want to feel better. It takes courage to ask for help. Be proud of taking the necessary steps to keep you and your baby safe.
Left untreated, chronic depression can seriously damage a mothers and her baby’s health. If you feel that you may need to start taking anti-depression medication, be sure to talk to your chosen healthcare professional first. It’s important that you are aware of any associated risks with taking any type of medication during pregnancy.
If you prefer to talk to a professional from the comfort of your own home, there are some anonymous hotlines you can call, including:
PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety & Depression Australia) offers information, support and referrals to women and their families who are suffering from post and antenatal depression.
Tel: 1300 726 306
Beyond Blue provides information on depression, anxiety and related disorders, and referrals.
Tel: 1300 22 46 36
Lifeline offers 24 hour counselling, information and referrals.
Australia Tel: 131 114
New Zealand Tel: 0800 543 354
Depression helpline New Zealand provides 24 hour professional support and advice for your situation.
Tel: 0800 111 757 (free)
You are of course, also welcome to jump on the Huggies Forum and talk to other pregnant mums who are going through tough times just like you.
