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Kids party ideas

The decision to host a child’s birthday party can lead the calmest of parents to head straight for the bedroom for a little lie down. Visions of long suffering clowns, jumping castles and Shetland ponies with an overactive bowel are enough for many parents to just give the whole idea a big miss. But you don’t have to be the world’s number one organiser for your child to have a memorable time.

Try to keep the idea of a kid’s party as special and not an every year event. You may want to alternate the years each of your children has a birthday party just to keep it all fair. If you can’t remember which child had one last, don’t worry – your kids will. If you have an only child, aim to keep track by having a party on the odd or even years.

But I don’t know how!

Try, from the start, to avoid subscribing to the commonly held view that your child’s birthday party is a demonstration to other parents. Then you will already be making things easier for yourself. Keep it all reasonably simple and straightforward. Don’t underestimate the ability of a bunch of kids, no matter what their age, to have a good time with very few props and very little intervention from their parents.

Party food ideas

Food is a must at a party. Everyone expects it and there will be major disappointment if you don’t deliver, and not just from the kids. Little children are rarely left on their own at parties, so don’t be surprised if at least one of their parents decides to stay to keep an eye on them.

Unless you want a mob of hungry adults descending on the fairy bread, think about catering for them as well. Finger foods which are easily served and cleaned up after, such as, sausage rolls, party pies, dips and chips are always popular. Try to match the party theme with the adult’s food as well; everyone loves a party no matter what their age. Remember, the focus will be on the kids so no reasonable parent is going to be reviewing the adult menu too critically.

Many people view their child’s party as an opportunity for the adults present to have a few drinks themselves. In moderation this is fine, but it is important to remember it is a child’s party and there needs to be a responsible, mature attitude to how much alcohol is consumed. There is nothing attractive about an intoxicated parent milling around a hoard of excited kids.

Food tips

Depending on the ages of the children who are coming, you will need to be flexible about the food you are offering. Obviously, what you provide to a crowd of one year olds will be different to a bunch of pre-schoolers.

Parties are seen as a time for treats and indulging in more sugar and junk food than usual. Even if you normally feel like a member of the food police, be prepared to relax your standards for the day. If you don’t offer at least some party food, there’s bound to be long faces. For older children, there is more risk of harm to their emotional well-being in feeling different, than what a few hours of party food will do for their digestion.

Remember to check with other parents if their child has any food allergies. Most families are careful about this and send their own “special” food which is safe for their child to eat. This is a good starting point for planning all the party food. If a child is allergic to nuts it would be wise to avoid having any form of these on the menu at all.

Note: Remember that popcorn, nuts, small hard lollies and some toys pose a risk of choking to small children. Make it a clear message to the kids that if they are eating, they sit down and can’t run around.

What’s the ideal number of guests?

Start planning your child’s birthday with an idea of how big (or small) you want it to be. One idea is to match the number of guests with the birthday child’s age, for example, a two year old has 2 guests and so on. But if you feel you can manage a couple of extra, feel free. As kids get older it becomes very important for them not to feel excluded. Sometimes, in the interests of avoiding hurt feelings, inviting the whole class or group is preferable to leaving some children out. Hosting the event at a local park, rather than at home for a large number is often more realistic.

One year old party food ideas

• Keep party food simple for one year olds. They don’t need vast amounts of sugar or colouring and can easily develop an upset tummy from even a small amount of party food.
• Fairy bread, jelly-cups with fruit, custard, cup up grapes, fresh fruit purees, cut up strawberries.
• An ice-cream cake with jelly and fruit is a popular option.
• Offer water or very dilute fruit juice.

Toddler party food Ideas

• Chocolate crackles, fairy bread, mini muffins made with fruit, yoghurt and jelly cups, cut up vegetables with an assortment of dips.
• Water or dilute juice is reasonable for drinks.
• A novelty birthday cake is always fun. Consider individual cup cakes with colourful icing and decorations. See our kids recipes for more ideas.
• Fruit kebabs with paddle pop sticks are a hit. Add watermelon, rock or honeydew melon, grapes and pineapple.

School aged kids party food ideas

• Mini pizzas, homemade sausage rolls, vegetable pieces cut up into finger sizes with a range of hummus, tzaziki, and sour cream dips. Popcorn necklaces, chocolate crackles, pizza, tooth picks with cheese, cherry tomatoes, cubed ham and pineapple chunks.
• Mini sandwiches or pin wheel sandwiches with a range of chicken, ham, lettuce and egg fillings. Make them freshly the morning of the party on white bread with the crusts removed.
• Don’t forget lolly bags to take when the guests leave. Make a trip to the two dollar shop and include some items which aren’t food related. Pencils, rubbers, stamps, stickers, small bouncy balls are all ideal.
• Ice blocks are wonderful for lifting flagging energy. Just buy the smaller ones and make sure there’s a choice of flavours and colours. This is not the time to read the ingredient list, so just open the box and dole them out! Or if you up to the challenge, make your own ice blocks!
• Get everyone involved in making their own pizzas. Have a range of toppings and bases ready and offer a prize for the most inventive. Just allow time for cooking or distribute them back to their creator just before everyone leaves.
• Provide water and cordial just because it is a party. Soft drinks are an unnecessary indulgence, especially when there’s likely to be a lot of treats. It also fills kid’s tummies up quickly and all your lovingly prepared food won’t get eaten.

Fun party games for young kids

The key to party games is to be prepared for the rules to be slightly lax. The high excitement of the day leads to more than a few individuals becoming tired and emotional. Make up your own rules if it keeps everyone happy but remember to give every child a turn. There are always some kids whose personalities make it easier for them to target what they want and to go for it. In the background, there is always one or two who just need a little persuasion to join in.

• Invest in some balloons. A general hint is that the cheaper ones don’t inflate as well and you’ll need to blow up twice as many to get the same affect. Clusters of balloons tied together give a greater impact than lonely ones all on their own. Don’t forget to put some balloons at the front gate so it’s clear where the party house is.
• Beg, borrow or steal a friend’s air mattress pump. They make the whole job of inflating 2 dozen balloons a piece of cake. If you don’t have the energy to do the balloons yourself, wait until a few other adults arrive. This will lighten your own work load – so get your guests busy!
• Musical Chairs, Pin the Tail on the Donkey and Pass the Parcel are always popular.
• “What’s the time Mister Wolf” is a good party game. Younger kids can’t be expected to cooperate for as long as the older ones, just be flexible and don’t enforce the rules too much.
• Treasure hunts with lollies, small toys or themes are great. For the sake of safety make it clear to the kids that some areas are out of bounds. Have some adult spotters planted strategically around just to keep the kids in safe areas. Chocolate frogs are ideal because they are wrapped and bright enough to spot.
• Have some fun with your child making up silly ideas for the kids at the party to do. Write them down on a slip of paper and insert this into a balloon before your inflate and tie it off. Get the kids to sit on the balloons until they pop and then let them know what they need to do according to the note. Ask them to take turns so you can control the mayhem.

Party ideas for babies, toddlers and school aged kids

• Time the party for the younger children either before or after afternoon nap time. Otherwise the whole event will soon come to a grinding halt.
• Ask guests to bring along something significant to fit inside a time capsule for the birthday boy or girl. This is a lovely keepsake for later years when your child will get a kick out of everyone’s individual ideas. Take photos of the guests with their contribution, or video some of their comments on why they chose what they did.
• Face painting is always a delight and very popular with younger children. Get the more creative adults busy with transforming little faces.
• Set up a table with assorted trinkets and engage the kids in making masks. Wide elastic to grip the back of heads and pre-cut mask shapes will help with planning. Feathers, glitter, textas and stickers can transform a simple piece of cardboard.
• Dress up themes are always a hit with older kids. Pirate, princess, under the sea, fairy, superhero, beach, cowboy/cowgirl parties have all stood the test of time. Get the adults involved as well and immerse yourself into the spirit of it all. No one will care how silly you look and you’ll impress the other adults who’ll think you’re wonderful for being so engaged with your child.
• Ask each guest as they arrive to guess the number of lollies in a jar. The one closest to the correct number claims the prize.
• For the little toddlers, a teddy bears picnic is always sweet. Make cubbies for the teddies to nestle into and make sure they’re not left out when it comes to the party food! Removing sticky icing from a furry face is a milestone for every parent.
• T-shirt painting is also fun. Ask each parent to either bring a t-shirt for painting or by-pass the guest’s lolly bag for a t-shirt instead. Set up tables with pots of indelible paint and brushes and encourage each child to paint themselves. If you time this activity at the start of the party, the t-shirts will have the most chance of drying before the party ends.
• Ask all the kids to bring a photo of themselves as babies. Play a game where the kids have to pick which child matches which baby.
• Make your own piñata with a blown up balloon and papier mâché covering. Do it a week before the party so it has time to seal and for the paint to dry. Fill the piñata with sweets and small toys.
• Make your own party hats. Take a trip to one of the two dollar shops and buy some glitter, feathers, tape, cardboard and all manner of craft bits and pieces. Give a prize for the most creative, most colourful etc. You may need to remind the adults to sit on their hands, unless they have to help the smaller guests.
• Don’t overlook the popularity of a sausage sizzle. Stock up on better quality sausages and tomato sauce. Expect to be finding ½ eaten sausages around the back yard for the next week though. Even your family pets will benefit from this party!
• If the thought of hosting a party at your own house is too much to consider, then investigate other options. Many of the fast food chains have “rent-a-space” options and packages. Otherwise, the local park is always a hit. One big bonus of this is that the mess is easier to clean up and not at your place.
• Older kids love three legged races. Try to match kids of equal height and ability. Adults can have fun with this game as well.
• Pre-schoolers and school aged children love bowling parties. Advise the alley when you book that it is for little kids and they will set up “gutter guards” which prevent the bowling ball from falling into the gutter repeatedly.
• A sleepover is always a winner of an idea. Ask each child to bring a sleeping mat, a mattress and a torch. Better still, pitch a tent outside and make the party a camping theme. Be prepared for a recuperative nap yourself the next day and don’t count on getting much quality sleep yourself when the little campers are over.
• Consider taking an older (and more cooperative) bunch of guests to the movies. Make sure it is G rated and a popular choice.
• For more ideas on great party activities, see Kids party activities.

Christmas party ideas for kids

• When you’re planning what time the party starts, consider not making it too early. Christmas morning is a time for families and children to enjoy opening presents and not have to rush somewhere else.
• Set up a craft table with Christmas decals, tinsel, baubles and coloured cardboard. Involve the kids in making Christmas decorations which they can take home with them. Write their name and age on the back so you can look back on how clever they were in years to come.
• If you don’t have a pool, try to organise some sort of water play option. Even buckets of water and a drizzling hose can occupy small children for hours. Just remember the safety and sun precautions so everyone has a good time.
• If your own children tend to be more careful with their toys than other kids, then place their special toys somewhere safe. Many a tear has been shed, when in all the excitement something precious is broken. Save yourselves the drama.
• Don’t expect the kids to eat much. They’ll snack and pick all day and when it comes to the main meal they may genuinely be full. Ease up on your expectations of yourself for the day and just go with the flow. The kids will eat when they are hungry and besides, you’ll have another 364 days to be more rigid in the following year.
• Even if they’re not keen on eating make sure the kids have access to plenty of fluids. Babies still need their breastfeeds or formula bottles whether it’s Christmas or not, so make sure you’re prepared and organised for their feeds. If you’re a breastfeeding mother go easy on the alcohol and be aware that the level of alcohol in breast milk matches blood alcohol levels.

Top tips for party success

• Farm out the family dog if you have one. Dogs and children always need supervision and you will be less stressed if there are four less legs you need to think about on the day.
• Keep to the time frame. Most little kids have had enough after a few hours and pushing them past their tolerance level is risky.
• Think about the day you’re planning the party. If it’s on the same day as the football grand final or the Bathurst weekend, you won’t be too popular.
• Warn your neighbours about potential noise and when you are having the party. This is more about being polite and courteous than anything else.
• Involve your kids as much as possible. It’s easy to get swept away in the organising flourish, but remember this is about your child and they need to have a say in things.
• Keep things simple. Some of the most successful parties are those which are impromptu, not too structured and have only had minimal planning.
• Don’t spend hours on preparing gourmet food which may not be eaten. Nothing is more heart dropping than seeing lovingly prepared party food with one bite out of it and then thrown on the ground.
• Don’t forget to charge up the camera batteries and have the video camera set to record. Do this the night before so you’re less likely to overlook it.
• Remember to have a good time yourself. Despite the fact that kid’s parties are a lot of work, they are a great way to have fun. They also bring out the child in all of us.
• For more tips on organising a kid’s party, check out Kids party tips.

For more information see Parents and children or Parenting .